What exactly is in the word “bitch?” Well, it literally means “female dog,” but it is often used to put down outspoken and confident women and/or subordinate men.
It is such a small, yet powerful word. It has the potential of taking everything away from a woman, and making her feel worthless…powerless. Yet, woman all over the country have recently begun to embrace the term, from Clinton to Palin. Well not really embrace, but you know…
So does that mean that the word “bitch” has become no BFD? Heck no!
It is still fully charged with sexism and now homophobia. It is still a malicious and spiteful word. Along with gay/faggot (being misused) and illegal (as in illegal alien), it is one of four words that I will stand up and be the loud brown girl everyone thinks I am.
People throw out the word “bitch” when they feel scared and threatened, mostly due to their own insecurities.
It is not our fault that we are strong, outspoken, unapologetic, commanding women. And no, we won’t calm down to make YOU feel more comfortable. And NO we won’t allow you to use that demeaning word to help make you feel more secure about your damn self!
So moral of the story, it is NOT okay to use the word bitch, and yes it is still a BFD to give us such a label!